But day after day I see depressing blogs and/or reblogs about having lost love, missing someone, or being lonely.  Maybe it’s because Christmas is right around the corner? Regardless, it gets a little tiring.  You folks sound like broken records.  Live for yourself.  I always just assume it’s the way that person was raised.  Independence must not have been a priority or destination for them.  People often ask me if I’m lonely, or if I ever crave the attention of a special somebody.  Contrary to what my haters say, I know you guys are reading this, I’m fine being alone.  Every relationship I’ve had, I’ve kept for years.  My most recent being five.  That’s one of the biggest reasons why I find it so amusing that a few girls can run their mouths and complain about how I’m such a flirt without knowing any of my history… or what I’m up to presently for that matter. 

Anyway, back to my point… Do you.  How is anyone supposed to love you if you’re blatantly broadcasting your insecurities day in and day out.  How is anyone supposed to think highly of you when you think so lowly of yourself?  How is anyone supposed to want to invest any time in getting to know you when you’ve clearly given up on yourself?

Sad because Christmas is around the corner and you don’t have anyone to celebrate with?  Helloooooo, family and friends! 

So it’s time to end your pity party, my friend.  Live a little.